TIMELINE AND DOCUMENTS REGARDING THE VISITATION SUPERVISOR INVOLVED IN BESTIALITY AND MASTER/SLAVE SEX [WARNING: NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN, X-RATED]
Compiled by Kathryn Joanne Dixon.
The following timeline is compiled from a number of sources taken from the personal home computer of Joyce Welsh which was used by the Child Visitation Supervisor unbeknownst to Ms. Welsh. Newsmakingnews does not know of any the documents below having been been sealed by any court as of April 2, 2007 12:30 a.m. It is published in the interest of preserving documents for public view on a matter of important public disclosure of dangers posed to children by the court system involved.
Names of minor children and name of the Child Visitation Supervisor and others have been removed.
The following print colors have been selected to identify the sources of the information:
Black: Sexual advertisements posted on the internet by the Master (z3illa) and the Slave/Child Visitation Supervisor ([email protected]) All email correspondence between Master and Slave. This email correspondence was obtained off the computer owned by Brian Tippie and Joyce Welsh and used by the court appointed Child Visitation Supervisor during visits to their home.
Bright Blue: Designates all web pages and nics (email addresses).
Dark Blue: Designates all court documents.
Green: Designates all letters.
Maroon: Billing records from the law firm of Whiting, Fallon & Ross, primarily attorney Lisa J. Gilmore for client Brian Tippie.
Violet: Child Visitation Supervisor's information about visitation reports filed with the court concerning the Welsh-Tippie daughter.
Contra Costa County appoints both professional and non-professional child visitation supervisors to "protect" a child from their own parents. Anyone can become a child visitation supervisor by "qualifying" through the county and being appointed by the Family Law Commissioners and/or the judges. The County does very little in the way of background checks on these "supervisors" to assure that they are drug free, morally upstanding, and/or free of communicable diseases to assure the safety of the child forced to endure their presence. The parents are intimidated by the courts and the court appointed "experts" and feel that they must bend to the will of the court or they will be stripped of all contact with their child.
By virtue of the custody dispute they are involved in they are now forced to play in the Family Law Courts', ballpark. Families who enter this domain no longer appear to have the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness with their children. As long as the court and its money making mercenaries can keep mom and dad at each other's throats the conspirators are assured they will continue to be paid. All the while the child suffers, isolated from its mother or father who they often can only see with the Child Visitation Supervisor present acting as a wall between the child and its parent. The child also knows that he or she must not speak with the visiting parent about the most hurtful thing they are experiencing - the fact that the visiting parent and the child cannot talk about the on going custody battle and the emotional destruction it has brought to the two of them. Both the monitored parent and the prisoner child realize they are under the constant spying eye of the visitation supervisor. That supervisor will report everything that happens during the visit to the child's therapist, the custody evaluator, the psychologist and eventually the court that will dictate their destiny.
All child custody cases that end up in the family law courts of Contra Costa County will affect the lives of the family members involved. The courts hold the parents and child hostage until the participants in the million dollar industry have drained the litigants of every dollar and every bit of compassion the family once possessed. The individuals will experience negative financial and emotional impacts that will last a lifetime.
Regardless of the damage inflicted on the parents or the children by the family law courts, the arrogant commissioners and judges NEVER admit or correct their mistakes.
The clearest example of this statement involves Joyce Welsh and Brian Tippie, parents of a beautiful eight year old daughter. The case No. D05-00622 is filed in the civil section and is unavailable to the public because, while the couple was together eleven years, they never married. Custody disputes involving unmarried parents are "paternity or high conflict" files and cannot be accessed by anyone but the two parties involved.
The most egregious part of this court file began:
Slave Ownership and Registration Certificate for
This is to certify that the registrant with number 000-452-448, with
email address [email protected], is registered in The Slave
Register as an owned slave; and that the registrant's owner is
declared to be z3illa; and that the registrant has been owned by z3illa
since the 12th day of June 2002.
The registration number 000-452-448 was issued on
the 21st day of April 2003. The current registration details may be
inspected at http://000-452-448.slaveregister.com/
This certificate was issued on the 8th day of March 2007.
For more information about The Slave Register please visit www.slaveregister.com
(Click. to Slave Ownership and Registration Certificate).
slave for use slave for use
Jul 8, 2003
ASK B & BELLE Jan-March 2003 Archives
Subject - Genital Cigarette Burns
Dear B & belle - i've been a submissive in the BDSM lifestyle since 1999, and Y/your web site was one of the first ones recommended to me. i've used it over the years for research and support (and of course, for the great BDSM pictures as well!). i'm currently in a BDSM relationship. my Master smokes cigarettes and although i don't smoke, i've discovered the satisfaction and erotic turn-on of being His ashtray. i dutifully open my mouth wide, extend my tongue, as He flicks His ashes onto my tongue. The taste is bitter sweet, but not hot, as i would've expected it to be. He has also touched His cigarette to my tits and nipples, leaving little red marks. Once, about two months ago, He punished me by extinguishing His cigarette against the wall of my cunt (please pardon my terminology, no disrespect meant, but He requires me to use these slang terms, to remind me of my purpose and function). He made sure that my cunt was wet, by making me cum before hand. It burned, but only temporarily, and not any worse than the wax that He has dripped on my cunt and tits. The heat only lasted as long as the cigarette was lit, and i was left with a small red spot, covered by a white wet scab. Since W/we both enjoy it so much, He's done it twice since then, without any long lasting effects, and i must admit that i love being used like that.W/we have online friends, a Master/slave couple, that W/we may meet in the next few months. The slave would like my Master to burn her cunt as well, but she has asked that her cunt not be wet, and that He shove the cigarette deep inside her cunt (i don't think that she meant on her cervix, but deep inside). my Master, and hers, would like to know the risk of tissue damage, nerve damage, permenant scarring of her cunt, and/or infection before He does it. i'm in the process of researching it, and thought that Y/you might be able to shed some insight on this. Thank Y/you in advance for Y/your time and assistance. ~ cunt[Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
B & belle reply -
Hi [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]... and thanks for your kind words about BDSM Cafe. We aim to please (unless you're a masochist, in which case we aim to piss you off ..:) Anyway, to get to your question, what you're asking about sounds dangerous to us. Let's start by saying that neither of us has any formal medical training, so take anything said here as opinion rather than fact. BDSM play with heat or friction often involves minor burns, either intentional or accidental. These can be 'pleasurable' in the context of the play or, at worst, a minor inconvenience. Things can go badly wrong however if the heat is too intense or if too much pressure is applied in which case you can burn right through tissue. Play involving the burning tip of a cigarette requires a delicate degree of control. We've had a good effect, without damage, by holding it very close to the skin, close enough to singe the fine hairs. Lightly (and momentarily) touching the skin with the hot tip jacks up the intensity. However for safety the person doing it needs to be able to see clearly what's happening. We don't have any personal experience of inserting a lit cigarette deep into a womans cunt, but our guess is that you run the risk of causing significant tissue damage because you can't see what you're doing and can therefore exercise little control. Now we know that some people get off on having serious damage done to their bodies, but think about it from your Masters point of view. Deep burns can cause shock, bleeding, scarring, and infection. If things really went wrong, your Master could find himself on the wrong side of a nasty law-suit or worse. We're all adults and it's not our business to tell anyone what to do, but personally we would really give this one a miss. If anyone has any other advice/tips though, you can let [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] know direct at.. ......Take care .. B & belle
Date: Thu 1 Apr 2004 12:13:57 -0800 (PDT)
From: " x x"
Subject: cuntrachel and cunts in general
Tell cuntrachel that I understand her reticence and if she feels that it is too risky then I don't have to fuck her or get a blow job from her. She is not the only cunt in the world. Don't tell her that part though.
As for you finding other cunts for me, don't worry about it, I have plenty with Donna, she will fuck me anytime I want, and if I want more I will find them myself. You will remain my slave until the day you die.
...........................................................Re: response to Master's email about cuntrachel............
Then she started on the fact that I have herpes. I can understand and respect if someone doesn't want to have sex with me, or doesn't want to have sex with You because I have herpes, but yesterday, she wasn't assertive enough to say that. I even asked her directly, and told her that I understood that despite our deal, that if she was afraid of getting herpes from You, that I would understand if she no longer wanted to have sex with You, but yesterday she wasn't that definitive. She just said that she would have sex with You in the future, that she didn't think there was a time line associated with it, and that she eventually would.
.........................................................Cunt[Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] on the other hand was being manipulative by making her deal, never intended to keep it, and as a slave she had no right to make it in the first place. She however, has been honest and assertive to say that she will never have sex with You because i have herpes. But the swarmy part of it is that she never intended to, long before that became a factor.
Date: Thu, 1 Apr 2004 12:21:51 - 0800 (DPT)
From: "x x"
Subject: going for my walk
You will use tabasco sauce today. ..............................The tabasco is to remind you that your cunt and ass belong to me. You will use is (sic) three times today. .........................
I want you to research dogsex tapes. I will have you buy some, I love to watch women fucked by dogs. We still have to gind a dog for you to fuck and suck.
You have your orders.
On or about July 6, 2004
................................................................It looks as though You wrote this Wednesday afternoon, after You fucked my ass in Your closet, while i was cleaning Your house. Unfortunately, i haven't been at work and therefore not online since Tuesday afternone, so I wasn't able to receive it. .....................................
You mentioned on Friday that my punishment isn't over and that i am to suck my husband's cock 5 days after his herpes outbreak started . He got his prodrome (mostly itching and a couple of small bumps) and he took his pills from Thursday to Saturday and fucked my cunt on Saturday and Monday. As of yesterday his bumps are gone. I will suck his cock tomorrow and try to get him to cum in my mouth. Certainly while I love to suck cock, sucking my husband's cock is a humiliating experience for me. But i will do it because I am bound to obey You and because i believe it is my best interest, as your slave. ..........................................................
.....I called in sick on Wednesday and Friday to clean your house, and to receive my punishment. i'm happy to do that, but when [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] sent emails to me on Wednesday and Friday, I had to lie and say i received them. [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] i am at work, i spend 80% of my time writing to You or writing to others on Your behalf. When I buy your cigarettes, Prilosec/gum, i have to use my credit card (since i have no cash) and go to stores that aren't suspicious of my credit card. i understand that i must keep these things on hand, but the cigarettes smell and [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] is always cleaning my car. .................. and i have my beer, toys, Tabasco sauce, myt slave jewelry, safety pins, hidden all over the house. i constantly lie about where i am and how i spend my time. i could go on, but for what? i'm not complaining. i'm just overwhelmed. i want to do it all, be everything you want in a slave.
I wrote this email to my husband about an email that Joyce forwarded to all of her friends, including me.
[Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] wrote:
Date: 8/02/04: UBIsoft offer letter to Brian Tippie for job as Senior Graphic Designed in the SF office. Two pages signed by Laurent Deloc as President and accepted by Brian W. Tippie on 8/4/04.
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Phone Records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated February 4, 2005:
Date: 1/25/05 Emp: LJG (partner) Consultation (first free visit) with Mr. Tippie Hours: 2.0 Amount: No Charge
Date: 1/27/05 Emp: WFW Review pleadings (domestic violence); office conference with Mr. Tippe (Sic); memo to file. Hours: 2.5 Amount: $975.00
Date: 1/27/05 Emp: LJG Review file; analyze domestic violence application; +email to Mr. Tippie; draft response to TRO. Hours: 1.35 Amount: $202.50
Date: 1/28/05 Emp: LJG Draft declaration of client; email client re custody and visitation schedule; legal research re Welsh divorce status and Ms. Welsh's sister's correspondence with media. Hours: 4.0
Amount: No charge
Date: 1/29/05 Emp: WFW Intraoffice conference: case strategy; paternity issues and division of assets; child support. Hours: 2.0 Amount: $780.00
Phone records retainer amount as of date of employment reflected on payment record of 2/04/05: $7,500.00.
Phone records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated March 10, 2005:
Date: 2/0705 Emp: WFW (partner William F. Whiting, Certified Specialist, Family Law, etc. Review family court services recommendation; intraoffice conference. Hours: 0.45 Amount: $175.50
Date: 2/07/05 Emp LJG Telephone mediator, Vicki McReynolds, for copy of agreement; review parenting plan Hours: 0.5 Amount $75.00 This billing is under phone records dated 3-10-05.
Date: 2/08/05 Emp: LFG Prepare for hearing on temporary restraining order, child custody, child support. Hours: 2.5 Amount: $375.00
Date: 2/8/05 Court document "Further Declaration of Restrained Person signed by Brian Tippie but not file stamped. Excerpts from Page 2 follow:
4. EVERETT, WASHINGTON: Immediately after I received the suicidal email from Joyce on January 7, 2004, I was worried about her safety, and telephones the Contra Costa County Sheriff's Office once again. The deputy I spoke with explained that the Sheriff in Everett could do a "welfare check" and had me hold on the line while he called Washington to request a check to be performed.
5. NANCY BUCK Joyce is making false accusations regarding my mother's health. She was hospitalized once in 1998 for a fleeding ulcer, the cause of which was never determined. There is no medical documentation that I am aware of that diagnoses my mother as an alcoholic. I am also unaware of any suicide attempts by my mother. I ask the court to require Joyce to produce evidence to support her allegations before making such a finding. Joyce has never had a problem leaving the children in my mothers care in the past. My mother provided child for all three children in September 2004 for three days and in July 2003 for tend days while Joyce and I were in Maui on vacation. Additionally, my mother's home is clean and organized, and she is unemployed by choice. She leaves her home on a regular basis to go shopping and to run errands. The children most recently went to my mother's apartment on a Wednesday night in January, 2005 when we ate dinner and watched a movie together. None of the children have ever expressed a dislike for their Grandmother to me in the past.
Date: 2/09/05 Emp: LFG Court appearance re temporary restraining order, custody and support, memo to file. Hours: 4.5 Amount: $675.00
Date: 2/10/05 Emp: LFG Prepare judgment of paternity; letter to client re judgment; letter to opposing party re resume; email to client re property division; prepare Findings and Order After Hearing; draft letter to opposing party re scheduling meeting for property division; completed memo to file re hearing notes; telephone call from client re Ms. Welsh; telephone call to Ms. Welsh. Hours: 3.75 Amount: $562.50
Date: 2/10/05 Emp: JK Instructions for courier to pick up minut order; letter to Dr. Hobbs re: stipulation and order appointing child custody evaluator; calendar; review memo re: hearing and calendar various dates; finalize and send letters to client and Joyce Welsh. Hours: 1.1 Amount: $88.00
Date: 2/20/05 Emp: WFW (partner) Intraoffice conference: case status; concerns re Joyce Welsh "move away". Hours: 0.45 Amount: $175.50
Date: 2/11/05 Emp: LJG Review voicemail messages from client; phone opposing party to clear up misunderstanding re visitation; letter to client re visitation and property division; review email from client.
Hours: 2.25 Amount: $337.50
Phone records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated March 10, 2005:
Date: 2/07/05 Emp: LJG Telephone mediator, Vicki McReynolds, for copy of agreement; review parenting plan. Hours: 0.5 Amount: $ 75.00
Date: 2/22/05 Findings and Order After Hearing signed by Josanna Berkow 2/22/05 but file stamped 3/7/05 (4 pages). Prepared by Lisa Gilmore Brian's atty and signed by Ann Wheatly atty Joyce.
Pg 2, para 7a Petitioner's request for a Restraining Order against Respondent (Brian) is denied and the Temporary Restraining Order issued on 1/21/05 is removed and cancelled for lack of sufficient facts.
Pg 2, para 7b The Temporary Restraining Order action (case number D-C5-00384) is consolidated with the paternity action. The master file will be D-05-00622.
Pg 2, para 7c Patenity adjudicated. Respondent stipulated as to advisement and waiver of rights.
Pg 2, para 7d The court appointed Dr. Karen Hobbs as custody evaluator under Evidence Code 730, to assess the mental health of the parties with respect so suicide threats. Psychological testing only as the evaluator deams necessary. Respondent is to advance the fee, estimated to be $4,500.00, subject to reallocation by the court. Dr. Hobb's Report is due 5/02/05. Recommendation conference scheduled for 5/13/05 at 5:00 am.
Pg 2, para 7e The Family Court Services mediation report dated 2/4/05 was disapproved and temporary custody and visitation orders made (see attached form FL-341). (Which states joint legal and physical custody with week on/week off schedule)
Pg 2, para 7f Neither party is to make disparaging remarks about the other parent, their friends or relatives or discuss any issue under litigation within bearing range of the minor child.
Pg 2, para 7g Petitioner is to give Respondent's pellet gun to Respondent's attorney for safe keeping. Respondent may retrieve personal belongings from the residence at 1101 Sante Fe (Martinez).
Pg 2, para 7h The issue of child support is reserved pending hearing on March 29, 2005 at 9:00 a.m.
Date: 2/23/05 Letter written and signed by Lisa J. Gilmore (Brian' attorney) to Martha G. McQuarrie of the Whatley Law Firm (Joyce's atty) with following quote:
When Mr. Tippie first started with Ubisolft in September 2004, there was a misunderstanding and Ms. Welsh was mistakenly covered as his spouse. In January 2005, Mr. Tippie approached Human Resources (HR) to find out how to proceed with removing her from his policy since they were no longer living together. At this time HR learned that Ms. Welsh is not his spouse, and told him that in order to keep her on his policy, he would need to submit a domestic partnership form. However, under the current circumstances, Ms. Welsh does not qualify as a domestic partner and the form was not submitted.
Most recently, HR has contacted the insurance carrier, which in turn said it would need to discuss the matter with its legal department. Mr. Tippie has not heard anything further..............
Date: 2/28/05 Emp: LJG Call from client re Ubisoft email; call to opposing counsel; letter to opposing counsel; draft temporary restraining order and supporting documents; call from opposing counsel re stipulation; email to client re stipulation; draft stipulation. Hours: 4.0 Amount: $600.00
Date: 2/28/05 Emp: LJG Call to Dr. Hobbs re: status of stipulation appointing child custody evaluator; review file re: follow ups; transcribe voice mail from opc's office; memo to file re: same. Hours: 0.3
Phone records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated May 4, 2005:
Date: 3/08/05 Emp: JK Call to Dr. Hobbs re: original signature page for Stipulation appointing her custody evaluator. Hours: 0.1 Amount: No charge
Date: 3/29/05 Further hearing re support before Josanna Berkow (signed by deputy clerk but not filed stamped). Orders Brian to pay Temporary Child Support of $579.000 per month commencing 4/01/05. Joyce ordered to seek employment and keep employment application log submitted to DCSS by 5/15/05. CUSTODY: The Court clarifies the 2-9-05 order: Father to advance cost for the custody evaluation and for "psyche testing" for mother. DCSS to prepare the support portion of the Order after Hearing. counsel Gilmore to prepare the custody portion of the Order after Hearing.
Phone records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated May 4, 2005:
Date: 4/07/05 Emp: LJG Phone call from Ms. Welsh; emails to client; review emails from client; email to Ms. Welsh re child therapist; phone call to client re conservatorship; phone call to probate attorney. Hours: 1.6 Amount: $240.00
Date: 4/19/05 Center for Human Development Conflict Resolution Panel Resolution Agreement (Case #11332) signed by Joyce, Brian and Monica Tippie and ? (mediators) reads as follows"
The items listed on the attached page and stored at 1101 Sante Fe Avenue, Martinez shall be divided accordingly. It was agreed that the Saturn Wagon will go to Joyce Welsh and the Honda Pilot will go to Brian Tippie. Joyce Welsh will sign over Stratton Account to Brian Tippie. Joyce Welsh will refinance house under her name with escrow instructions that joint loan will be paid off. $8400 will be held in escrow to pay repairs to the house: porch, ceiling and door frame. Net to be split between Joyce and Brian. Balance of bank accounts and Vanguard money market fund is split between Joyce and Brian plus an equalizing payment of $1500 to be paid by Joyce to Brian. Brian will close accounts. Brian will obtain three names of professional therapist from his insurance carrier. The people whose signatures appear below agree that this written resolution agreement is enforceable at law and is admissible as evidence in court or an administration proceeding. Belongings will by moved by May 13, 2005.
Date: 4/25/05 Letter from Lisa Gilmore to "Nancy" Department 51 (Josanna Berkow) Contra Costa Sup Ct. reads as follows:
Re: Tippie v. Welsh, Brian & Joyce: Sup Ct. of CCC Cnty, Case No. D05-00622
Pursuant to our conversation last Friday, April 22, 2005, regarding the two judgments that were filed, I did check to make sure they were exactly the same and they are not. In February one of the assistants at our office sent the Judgment to your office and it accidentally went to the wrong person since it is a Judgment Regarding Paternity. In mid April I called to get the status on the Judgment and I was told that the court never received the Judgment, therefore, I went ahead and prepared another one. The Judgment that I sent to the Court was filed on April 14th, and the original Judgment was found and filed on the 21st of April. Unfortunately, it looks like the Judgment that was filed on April 21, 2005 is incorrect, it has the petitioner and the respondent switched in number two, letters D, E, F, and letter G. I am very sorry for the inconvenience but I would like to know how we can pull the Judgment and the Notice of Entry of Judgment that was filed on April 21st since it is not filled out correctly? The judgment filed April 14, 2005 is the one we need to have in the Court file.
Prepared and Signed by Marlena Noble, Legal Assistant to Lisa J. Gilmore, Esq.
Phone records for atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated June 7, 2005
Date: 5/09/05 Emp: LJG Review voicemail messages from client; telephone call from client re TRO; prepare letter to Dr. Hobbs; prepare TRO and supporting deceleration. Hours 1.9 Amount $285.00
Date: 5/10/05 Emp: LJG Review pleadings filed by Ms. Welsh; email to client; prepare declaration in rebuttal to Ms. Welsh's declaration; telephone call from client. Hours: 1.1 Amount: $165.00
Date: 5/11/05 Emp: GA (partner Gregory C. Abel - certified specialist, Family Law) Confer with Atty Gilmore re: recommendation conference preparation; communications with Expert Hobbs (and letter from Expert Hobbs to Court) Hours 0.3 (no charge)
Date: 5/11/05 Emp: KVC (Atty in same office Kimberly V. Campbell) Intra office conference with Attorney Gilmore preparing for settlement conference. Hours: 0.3 Amount: $72.00
Date: 5/11/05 Emp: LJG Prepare evidentiary objections to Respondent's Declaration; telephone call to Dr. Hobbs; intraoffice meeting re custody conference; telephone calls from client. Hours: 1.6 Amount: $240.00
Date: 5/12/05 Emp: LJG Review voicemail from client; email to client; review letter from Dr. Hobbs; prepare for custody conference. Hours 0.4 Amount $60.00
Date: 5/13/05 Emp: LJG Court appearance for recommendation conference. Hours: 3.3 Amount $495.00
Date: 5/19/05 Order after Court recommendation conference re custody and visitation heard by Josanna Berkow on 5/137/05, Berkow stamp 5/17/05 but file stamped 5/19/05.
Brian present and represented by Gilmore and Joy pro per. Based on recommendation of court appointed evaluator, Karen Hobbs, PhD the court made the following orders.
1. This order replaces the order files April 14, 2005.
2. Petitioner, Brian Tippie ("Brian") is to have temporary sole physical and legal custody of the parties' minor daughter, [MINOR DAUGHTER] Tippie.
3. Respondent, Joyce Welsh, ("Joyce") is to immediately seek psychiatric treatment and is ordered to schedule an assessment with James Gracer, M.D. (7 Santa Maria Way, Orinda, CA 94563, (925) 253-0567). Dr. Gracer is to receive a copy of the evaluator's report.
4. Brian is to advance the cost of the initial assessment with Dr. Gracer, estimated to be approximately $300. The cost of the assessment is subject to reallocation by the court.
5. Joyce is to have eight (8) hours of supervised visitation with [MINOR DAUGHTER] each week. This visitation may take place at Safe Exchange or at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]'s (sic) home. The specific days and times are to be worked out between the parties' and Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] (sic). If Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] (sic) supervises such visitation, she shall take the Family Court Services training class as soon as she can (to register call (925) 957-7963). If any other personal friend of the parties is to supervise the visitation, such person must first take the Family Court Services course.
6. Brian is to arrange for [MINOR DAUGHTER] to begin counseling immediately with either Heide Perryman, PhD. (3704 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Suite 319, Lafayette, 94549: (925) 283-4499) or Erika Goldstein, Ph.D. (also 3704 Mt. Diablo Blvd., Suite 319, Lafayette, 94549: (925) 283-4499). [MINOR DAUGHTER'S] shall receive a copy of the evaluator's (Karen Hobb's) report. (Note: Perryman is not covered by Brian's insurance as required by the signed resolution dated 4/19/05).
7. [MINOR DAUGHTER] may spend time, unsupervised, with her paternal grandmother, Nancy Buck.
8. Joyce is ordered to stay away from [MINOR DAUGHTER'S] school, currently Morello Park Elementary, and day care facility, currently Woodbridge Children's Center, until her treating psychiatrist determines that she is stabilized, at which time she may resume her volunteer activities at the school.
9. Joyce is not to telephone [MINOR DAUGHTER] during the time she is not with her.
10. The evaluator will work with Joyce's treating psychiatrist and issue a report that is due August 5, 2005. A hearing will take place on August 12, 2005 at 9:00 a.m. in Department 51 to review Joyce's progress and the custody and visitation schedule.
11. A modification of child support is to be calendared to address the change in custody.
Both parties stipulate to California jurisdiction and court orders for custody/visitation order herein is Family Code 200, 2010, 3022, 3421, and 3424.
Date: 5/20/05 Claudia Coale, L.C.S.W. non-professional supervisor instructor signs certificate that Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] attended "the special orientation class for the non-professional supervisor program and that the date of training was 5-20-05.
Date: 5/22/05 Supervised Visitation Log filled out and signed by Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] stating that Joyce was "Good" and "Excellent". Child "Happy". Visitation takes place at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]'s home at [ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER DELETED] Martinez, CA. [MINOR DAUGHTER] date of birth 1-18-99 - age 6. Date of visit was 5/22/05.6
Date 5/29/05 Supervised Visitation Log filled out and signed by Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] stating Joyce was "Good" and "Excellent". Child "Happy". Visitation takes place at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] home. Date of visit was 5/29/05.
Date: 6/6/05 Supervised Visitation Log filled out and signed by Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] stating Joyce was "Good" and "Excellent". Child "Happy". Visitation takes place at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] home. Date of visit was 6-5-05.
Date: 6/12/05 Supervised Visitation Log filled out and signed by Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] stating Joyce was "Good" and "Excellent". Child "Happy". Visitation takes place at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] home. Date of visit was 6-12-05.
Date: Mon, 20 Jun 2005 10:00:17 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Good morning, Master
It's such a different vision of You, sitting in a classroom, just one of many other students. The way i see You, You're the teacher. But yea, even teachers are students themselves.
i took [Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child] to camp this morning. A few kids that he really likes are there and he was enthusiastic about it, so i'm glad. Even so, he's been asking me about picking him up earlier this summer. i told him that i'm not sure about my hours yet (i'm not. i really have to pin down Marty about that.) i'll probably be working the same 30 hours until at least July 11th, until the new computer registry is up and running and the bridge will be gapped between the SLOS study that i did with Suzanne is part of the new reporting system. Then i'll just be working for Marty, probably 20-24 hours/week.
i had a horrible weekend. i was with Joyce and [MINOR DAUGHTER] on Saturday and she just went off the deep end, acting inappropriately, grilling and pumping [MINOR DAUGHTER] for information about her father, asking [MINOR DAUGHTER] who she'd rather live with (she said Joyce, and yet Joyce kept asking her over and over again, at least 5 times.). When i cautioned Joyce to stop asking her the same question (we learned at non-professional supervisor class not to ask the kids things about the other parent or to say anything bad) she said that she can't do this anymore, that i'm being influenced by Brian and that i don't have the balls to stand up to him. i don't think that's true. i just remember how negatively it affected me when my mother used to talk bad about my father and grill me after each time i visited him. It put me in the middle and it confused me. By the end of the visit, Joyce was making direct attacks on Brian, telling [MINOR DAUGHTER] that he's a cheater and a robber. She asked [MINOR DAUGHTER] where she was going to camp. [MINOR DAUGHTER] said that she didn't know. (She was at Woodbridge this morning.) When Joyce asked her if she was staying with Brian's mother, [MINOR DAUGHTER] said yes. Joyce said, "you don't want to stay with grandma, she smokes and drinks." What's a kid supposed to do? And as it turns out, she's not staying with grandma.
Another thing Joyce did was..........
uh oh, it's 10Am.
~ Your cunt
Date: Mon, 20 Jun 2005 11:38:54 -0700 (PDT)
Subject: Good morning, Master con't
i started rambling on again about Joyce's visitation with her daughter but it started to get me anxious and i didn't want to do that to myself, or to You, so i'll capsulize:
Both of those things were to spite Brian, but the thing with the hair cutting actually hurt [MINOR DAUGHTER] because it made her go against her father's wishes and pick sides.
Ok, i'm rambling. But basically, Joyce didn't ask or say these things once, but several times. i kept cautioning her, and then she got angry at me, saying that she doesn't judge me and that she has covered for me. She said that she'd never call [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] and tell him that i have sex with dogs. Was that a threat? Whatever. Around 12 noon, she said that the visit was over and that she couldn't do this again. i told her that i could leave or stay (because although i could tell that [MINOR DAUGHTER] was a bit confused and conflicted, i didn't feel like she was in danger.) and suggested that we go out to lunch and change the pace. We kept the visit until the regular time, but by the time she cut [MINOR DAUGHTER]'s bangs, i decided that i'm not a policeman and that whatever consequences came out of it were her own responsibility.
When Brian came to pick up [MINOR DAUGHTER], i handed him her painted shoes and he saw her haircut and i looked miserable and exhausted. i told him that i didn't feel ready to talk about what happened, but that i'd call the court mediator and ask for advice about how to fill out my report. i told him that i love Joyce and i know that she love [MINOR DAUGHTER], but that i didnt agree with some of the things that she did and said but if i couldn't control her, that perhaps i should step down as supervisor. He told me to let him know by mid-week.
So now i'm sitting her looking at my visitation log. i'm not sure what to do.
i feel like a leper. i don't want to be the cause of Joyce losing custody (she implied it, but i know it's her own doing) but i've also got an obligation to the court. cunt[Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] called me. Her husband is on the war path. He found a love letter and a poem that she wrote for her Master (what the heck was she doing printing them out?) and he's still talking about the time that i called her cell phone and he answered it. i did the best that i could, considering that she didn't warn me that she was going to be with her Master. When he asked me if she was with me, i said yes, but she went to the store. i collaberated her story that we go to OA meetings together, but when he asked me if we work out together, i said no. (i live in Martinez and she lives in Brisbane. it didn't make sense.) but she told him that we do work out together. How was i supposed to know that? She never told me. He said that i sounded nervous. Hell yea, i was nervous! Anyway, she found an apartment a few minutes away from her house. She's probably going to move out. Even so, she hates to hurt her husband. Yea, join the club, missy!
And then there's Donna. i still regret that She had to find out about me. She seems to be doing ok, though. She let You know, and now She's acting as if nothing happened. i guess that's Her way. i'm glad, if it works for Her.
And then there's my herpes. Friday night i had a couple of pimples on my chin. Saturday i had a dozen, Sunday two dozen. Some are like whiteheads, others just red. To an observer, it looks like mild acne, but to me it looks different. Did i autoinoculate myself by licking TJEN's cunt? my face was soaking wet and there was ejaculate everywhere and my face was buried deep in her cunt. Master, i hope that You'll tell me if You have any symptoms. If Cameron or Don get herpes, i hope that You'll help me decide how to respond. i'm not very quick on my feet when i'm confronted unexpectedly without preparation.
So........i'm a sexual leper. Also, i'm in a position to screw Joyce and i don't want to, but i don't know what to do because i have a responsibility to [MINOR DAUGHTER] and the court. i screwed cunt[Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] although she admits that it's mostly her fault for not communicating with me and for all sorts of evidence that she's been leaving around on her own and how often she's with her Master. i screwed Donna inadvertanly. i never imagined that She'd see my profile. i didn't realize that She had a friend in the lifestyle who would see my profile and know Your handle. And i might have given You, Cameron, Don and TJEN herpes. i didn't realize that the tender spot on my lip Wednesday morning was actually a full blown herpes outbreak that's actually turned out to be symtomaticallly worse than any outbreak i've had in my cunt. i'm glad that You're not going to be home on Wednesday. i wouldn't want You to touch me.
i feel like a leper. And what about Your Wife? i would never do anything or say anything to let Her know the nature of O/our relationship. i'm the cleaning lady and that's the way i think of myself and the way i act when i'm at Your house. When i'm with Your Mother-In-Law, i'm role-playing and i believe that i'm the cleaning lady. But i'm so close, so involved. i trust myself, but with all that's happened lately that affects others, i'm just so scared, Master.
Ok, enough of that. i picked up Your Wife's pants. They sewed the seam and the button hook and dry cleaned them. i've got Calistoga water and Prilosec OTC in my trunk for You.
Ok, i'm going to do some work now.
~ Your cunt
Date: Mon, 20 Jun2005 11:59:28 -0700 (PDT)
From: [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
Subject: Fwd: PLEASE READ THIS ANSWER TO HARRASSMENT FROM A LAWYER
To: [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband]
[Child Visitation Supervisor's husband]:
Joyce sent me this on Friday. The email below is in reaction to Brian's lawyer chastising Joyce for serving Brian with papers again (unnecessarily) due to advice from the court reporter (not the judge). She also sent this email to several of her friends and to [JOYCE WELSH'S younger daughter] and [Joyce Welsh's elder daughter] as well. It just doesn't seem reasonable or rational to me. She's being evaluated by the courts for her sanity and custody of [MINOR DAUGHTER] and she writes in a huge font in all caps. She says that Brian beat her up. At the most he shoved her - once. She spelled harass, harassment, and damn incorrectly. She is making the situation that she created even worse.
i spoke to the court mediator today. She said that i should write everything about Saturday's visit down in a log. i don't need to elaborate necessarily, just the basics. She said that if i continue to be supervisor, that it must be with Joyce's understanding that she comply with the rules, including not going against the wishes of the custodial parent. I don't think that i can do that. And i'm starting to think that [MINOR DAUGHTER] is better off with her visits supervised by a professional supervisor. i'm really sad about this. Joyce is a good friend, but she's not thinking clearly.
I'll call you later. i haven't written my report yet. You've been really good about of this and i appreciate it. i'm sorry to bring all this drama to our lives. i'm going to call N----'s mother about watching the cats while we're in Detroit.
Date: Supervised Visitation Log filled out and signed by Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] stating Joyce's "compliance with rules during visit was poor" and nothing filled in for "attitude and spirit of cooperation with supervisee" All previous visits had written in "Excellent". Deborah has always rated custodial parent Brian as "good" and "excellent". Attached is the following dated 6/18/05:
Supervised Visitation Log
Despite disapproval/caution from supervisor, Ms. Welsh:
* Repeatedly asked [MINOR DAUGHTER] about father's living arrangements and his girlfriend.
* Made disparaging remarks about [MINOR DAUGHTER'S] father and her (paternal) grandmother.
* Repeatedly asked [MINOR DAUGHTER] who she wanted to live with.
* Allowed [MINOR DAUGHTER] to paint from a gallon paint can in her good clothing until she was covered in paint. She refused supervisor's offer to get a large T-shirt or to change her outfit. The clothes were ruined and Ms. Welsh eventually threw them out.
* Trimmed [MINOR DAUGHTER] bangs despite [MINOR DAUGHTER'S] initial protestations that her Daddy told her to let her hair grow long.
Signed [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] under her typed signature.
Date: Tue, 21 Jun 2005 10:02:18 -0700 (PDT)
From: c >
Subject: Good morning, Master
To: MASTER >
Last night my husband helped me to write my visitation log. i made it as short and concise as a long-winded cunt like me could manage. i told the truth without embellishing or editorializing it. If only Joyce didn't do things that Brian would see (allowing [MINOR DAUGHTER] to ruin her clothes and cutting her bangs) i probably would have submitted a good report and just stepped down as supervisor. Anyway, i'll give You a copy after i type it (assuming that You're interested in all this drama. i guess that You are because You met Joyce.)
i actually saw Joyce and her [Younger Daughter] this morning at my house. Joyce cancelled her trash service to save money and she uses my can and today is trash pick up day. i told her that after thinking it over i decided not to be the supervisor anymore and she was ok with that. i told her that i didn't submit the report yet, but that i would basically tell the truth in the best way that i could. She suggested that i write down that everything went fine, but i said that i couldn't do that because of the physical evidence ([MINOR DAUGHTER'S] clothing and hair).
Anyway, [Joyce Welsh's younger daughter] said that last night her mother was with her boyfriend (i didn't ask which one, i've lost track) and that they went for a walk at midnight and were kissing. She seemed pleased. i may be a slut and a cunt, but i don't think that i've have a man at my house during the week after the kid's bedtime. i guess i'm being judgmental. And it doesn't seem fair, because Joyce has never been judgmental of me (and there's plenty to be judgemental of with me) but i don't tell her this to her face and this isn't about her, but about her kids. i know what it's like to be a kid in a divorce. It sucks.
[Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child] was eager to go to camp this morning. i'm so glad. We dropped a book from his classroom off at the school office (it mistakenly ended up in his backpack) and he allowed the school secretary to hug him without grimacing. my little boy is growing up and getting social skills.
This morning i told him that when parents talk bad about each other to their kids, it isn't good for the kids. i apologized for the times that i called his father boring and cheap. i told him that i actually married him because of those qualitites. i told him that boring also means responsible and stable and he said that he understands that his father and i might be opposite in some ways but that we compliment each other. Smart kid.
i love You, Master.
~ Your cunt
Date: Tue, 21 Jun 2005 11:00:26 -0700 (PDT)
From: c >
To: MASTER >
i faxed my visitation log to Brian's lawyer (i've been doing that every week, at her request). But first i called Brian. i told him what i had written, and i asked if it was ok if i only included the things that were physical evidence ([MINOR DAUGHTER]'s clothing and hair) that he would have been obvious to him about without my report, because i don't want to be on the list of people that Joyce thinks is against her, i don't want to lose her friendship, and i don't want to feel responsible if she loses custody of [MINOR DAUGHTER]. He said that he thinks the other things on my list (like pumping [MINOR DAUGHTER] for information and slandering her father) are important and not to worry, the psychologists have plenty of their own observations and my statements would only be one of many. i know he's right. i also know that what Joyce did this weekend was more about hurting Brian and validating herself than what's in [MINOR DAUGHTER]'s best interest. Brian told me that [MINOR DAUGHTER] pissed on herself three times on Sunday. i didn't tell him that she also pissed and shit in her pants while she was with us on Saturday. Brian is doing his best. He's reading books about child psychology, taking [MINOR DAUGHTER] to the child psychologist and trying to keep her busy and happy. He's no saint. But he's got his act a lot more together than Joyce does at this point. i'm just glad that i'm not the judge in this case.
Anyway, here's what i wrote in my report under the section of "incidents to report, if any":
Supervised Visitation Log
Despite disapproval/caution from supervisor, Ms. Welsh:
Date: 6/21/05 Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. types and signs the following note to Lisa Gilmore (925) 296-6001 (FAX number for Whiting, Fallon & Ross law firm)
This is to inform you that am I no longer available to supervise visitation between Ms. Welsh and her daughter. I understand that a Professional Supervisor will be sought for their future visitations as soon as possible.
Oh Master. i'm exhausted. How did i get myself into this drama? i'm pretty sure that Joyce and i will still be friends, but it won't be the same. i'm going to get a backup to feed my cats next month.
i don't think that i told You this, but i feel partially responsible for her going off the deep end on Saturday. The week before, when [MINOR DAUGHTER] pissed her pants, she asked me if it was ok if she pissed on top of them. i figured that [MINOR DAUGHTER] wouldn't know so it wouldn't hurt her and Brian would figure that it was [MINOR DAUGHTER]'s piss. Even if it went past the crotch of [MINOR DAUGHTER]'s pants, they were bunched up in the bottom of the bag. So Joyce pulled down her pants in the garage, and i held [MINOR DAUGHTER]'s pants between her legs while she pissed on them. i figured that it didn't hurt anyone and it made Joyce feel better. But i see now that i was just feeding into her vindictive and immature nature. On Saturday, she asked me if it was ok if she asked [MINOR DAUGHTER] if Brian had her potato peeler (she thinks that Brian has been stealing from her). Initially i told her no, because [MINOR DAUGHTER] wasn't a reliable witness (remember, she said that her grandmother was watching her this summer and it turns out that she's going to Woodbridge) but eventually i said that as long as she made it seem innocent and not accusatory (she asked her if she helped her Daddy cook and then asked her if she used the potato peeler with him and then asked if he had one like Mommy used to have). [MINOR DAUGHTER] said yes (which didn't prove a thing) and then Joyce went on to ask [MINOR DAUGHTER] about every household item that she thinks is missing and she stopped disguising her questions, at which point i protested. i could see that [MINOR DAUGHTER] had a blank and glassy stare.
After that, when Joyce started asking questions of [MINOR DAUGHTER] over and over, i protested and cautioned her and that's when Joyce and i started to argue. i was almost going to take [MINOR DAUGHTER] and leave, but i thought that might make it even worse and confuse [MINOR DAUGHTER]. After a while, i just shut my mouth and figured that whatever actions Joyce took would result in her own consequences. Of course i kept close to them. i mean, since she was the one who ran away threatening suicide a few months ago, i didn't want her pulling the same theatrics again with her daughter in tow.
Sorry Master, thanks for listening. It's heavy on my mind right now. i'm going to do some work.
~ Your cunt
Date: Tue, 21 Jun 2005 12:40:28 -0700 (PDT)
From: c >
To: MASTER >
i'm going for my walk now. Joyce called me while i was working and i didn't answer the phone, so i'm going to call her while i'm walking. Thanks for listening, Master.
It's weird how much i miss You when You're busy during the week. On the weekends i know that You're with Your family and i'm happy about that. During the week, sometimes You don't answer my emails or write to me for a day or two, but i know that You're reading them and i feel Your presence. Knowing that You're out of touch all day is weird, but i actually enjoy the visualization of You with a group of professionals, learning, growing, exchanging ideas. And yea, i imagine that there's some professional cunt in the back row checking You out, wondering about what i already know, what a dynamic/sexual/amazing Man You are.
~ Your cunt
http://mail.yahoo.com Date: Tue, 21 Jun 2005 15:22:37 -0700 (PDT)
From: c >
To: MASTER >
i spoke to Joyce. She still wants to be my friend. She's not happy about what i wrote on my visitation log, but she writes it off as me being weak and being manipulated by Brian. She also thinks that he asked me to supervise her visits because he knew all along that he could use me as a pawn (as i recall, it was she who suggested me and he agreed.) True, i'm weak, but i'm also prinicpled and in my heart, i chose to do the right thing. i'll continue to be her friend and do what i can to make her life easier. i'll continue to support her through this difficult time and gently advise her when i think that she's doing things (inadvertanly) that are not in the best interest of her children or are contaproductive to her case.
While i was out, i also called the nsa herpes hotline. i love those people. The lady reminded me that only 10% of HSV2 occurs on the face and that autoinoculation is rare. my blood test was negative for HSV1. So maybe the stuff on my lip, uvula and chin isn't genital herpes after all. But what the heck is it? Maybe i got impetigo, or some other staff infection. It's more prevelent among children, but it can occur in adults. i looked it up and it starts in the nose. i had a sore in my nose a couple of months ago. i know, i'm fishing. But i'd like to think that my mouth is herpes free. The symptoms are getting better and hardly noticable, but if they come back, i'm going to the doctor for a diagnosis. Impetigo is treated with antibiotics.
Such drama, huh Master?
i love You so much, even more when You're not around. i'm so glad that i'll be at Your house tomorrow. Even when You're not home, i just love being there. When i'm in Your environment, i feel safe and sane, and the rest of my crazy life just melts away.
Thank You, Master.
~ Your cunt
http://mail.yahoo.com Date: Thu, 23 Jun 2005 10:00:38 -0700 (PDT)
From: c >
Subject: Good morning, Master
To: MASTER >
i'm here at work, doing the reporting. i'm in a haze, can't seem to wake up. i'm depressed and conflicted about what "i did to" Joyce. i gave her the paperwork yesterday and she was frustrated and angry at me. i don't blame her. But i did what i thought was right (in my position as court appointed non-professional supervisor) and what i thought was best, not necessarily for Joyce, but for [MINOR DAUGHTER]. i'm glad that when i went over there, Joyce's two older children and Joyce's father were there. It kept things from getting out of hand. Joyce yelled at me and defended her actions and i just hung my head and said that i know how she feels, but i made my decision based on my conscience and my obligation to the court.
It was such a difficult decision to make, but i made it and now i have to live with the consequences. The way Joyce acted with [MINOR DAUGHTER] on Saturday was so blatantly inappropriate and i could see how it was hurting and confusing [MINOR DAUGHTER]. Joyce couldn't see it. i understand that. She's in pain and she feels abused and misunderstood. And now she feels betrayed by me. i wish that she would get some help. She saw the court appointed psychiatrist once and she took the medicine for about 6 weeks. i'm not sure that's enough. She still has (in my opinion) the same distorted outlook, the same paranoia and the same desire for vindication. i don't know how she's going to pass her follow-up evaluation in August. And now she has me to blame (although i know that it's only one thing among many.)
i know that i didn't do this to Joyce. Brian left her and it was devestating to her, but i honestly feel that after the initial breakup, all this legal, custodial and police involvement she brought upon herself. She doesn't see that. She still can't understand why she's in a position where she has to prove that she's a good mother. i don't think that she's a bad mother. i know that she loves her children and that she does what she thinks is best for them. But i also believe that because of the state she's in at this point in her life, she isn't able to put their needs before her own. Does this mean that she shouldn't have custody of [MINOR DAUGHTER]? That's not for me to decide, and honestly i'm not sure. And yet, my documentation and stepping down as supervisor may result in her losing custody. i know, i know, the court has a lot of other documented cause against her and it's Joyce's actions that count the most, but i still feel awful about it all. i've tried counseling her and i tried to explain how her actions appear to the court, but she keeps justifying her behavior and she continues to do thing that make her appear irrational and volatile.
i'm angry at Brian. When i told him that i was considering stepping down, he said not to worry because he'd just provide a professional supervisor and he'd pay for it. He made it sound easy. Now his lawyer told Joyce that it's up to her to find and to pay for someone. That makes it seem like she'd too poor to see her daughter. Of course if it was me, i'd sell things if i had to, in order to see [Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child].
And speaking of [Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child]............. Yes, i know that this could happen to me. i don't think that [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] would ever do it, though. And if it did, i respect authority enough to comply with whatever rules they'd set for me. With Joyce it's all about principals and it's all about her. If i were in her situation, it would be all about what's best for my child.
Before i completed the visitation log i spoke to the court mediator and [Child Visitation Supervisor's husband] helped me write it. Everyone i spoke to about writing the report and stepping down (except of course for Joyce) said that i was doing the right thing. i considered writing a good report and stepping down without official explanation. i considered only documenting the things that were obvious to Brian about that day (her ruined clothing and her hair cut), but the court mediator and my husband convinced me to include everything.
So i did the "right" thing. But now i have to live with the consequences. Do i really need this drama in my life? Don't i have enough of my own? Joyce has been a wonderful friend to me, but i also know that i've been very helpful and supportive to her over the years as well. Part of me is relieved to think that our friendship has cooled off. Part of me is scared that a woman who wrote a disparaging email to Brian's entire company, who puts signs with photos of Brian's face and car in her window alerting neighbors that if they see him he's trespassing, who has a website telling her side of the story and giving out Brian's email telling others to tell him what they think about what he did, who claims that she spoke to "the media" about what he did in hopes that they'd write an expose and "ruin" him, who has the key to my house, who knows that i fuck dogs and whore myself, will do to me. Yesterday when i brought her the paperwork, one of the things that she said was that she's stuck by and supported me with all the "sick and perverted" things that i've done. She didn't seem to be threatening me, but i'm prepared.
i'm no saint and i know that what i do indirectly affects my son. But i'm with his father, we act as a team, i'm responsible and accountable, and i spent lots of time nurturing and supporting my son. Even before the breakup, Joyce always seemed overwhelmed by her kids. She made them very independent, she let them play unsupervised and sometimes she didn't know where they were.
Ok, that's enough. i'm sorry, Master. This is a big thing for me. i wish that it was black and white, but it's so complicated.
Yesterday when we went to the orthodontist, the doctor told us that he doesn't need to wear his retainer anymore. We just have to come for a check up every three months, until he loses some more teeth.
i had a good day at Your house. i really enjoyed checking out the model homes with Your Mother-In-Law. She's so much fun to hang out with.
i don't know why it takes me so long to clean Your house. i feel bad that i didn't finish Reid's laundry and last night laying in bed i remembered that i missed dusting the table under the new TV. Adding Reid's room takes time. He leaves a lot of clothes to hang up and his bed is hard to make because it's heavy and against the wall. i know that i do some extra things that cleaning ladies dont' usualy do, but i love doing them and i don't think that they take that long. i'm not sure what it is. i don't eat, i don't linger, i don't dawdle or take time to look at anything or read anything (except once in a while i smell Your socks before i put them in the washing machine :) i'm not sure what it is. Laundry takes time. i'm slower because i'm fatter. But even so. i guess i do an ok job or You'd tell me. i love cleaning Your house. i always do. i just wish that i felt more productive.
i see that You ran out of water. i'm sorry about that. i guess that it's been hot out. i'll try to overlap better. i gave You a new pack of Dentyne, a new flavor that they don't have at Smart and Final yet, but if You like it, i can get more.
i haven't won any Lotto yet, but i won $4 in a scratch off ticket for You.
i guess that's enough for now.
i love You, Master. Thank You.
~ Your cunt
Date: Thu, 23 Jun 2005 10:27:03 -0700 (PDT)
With all my droning on and on about Joyce, i forgot to tell You what i decided about my work hours. After i wrote to You on Tuesday, i stopped by Marty's office to say goodnight. He said that whatever hours i picked would always be flexible. He said that as long as i got 20 hours in, it was ok with him. What a nice guy! He really seems to like me and my work and he wants to keep me. So basically, i'm choosing 9:30-3:30 (that includes an hour for lunch/walking) Mon, Tues, Thurs, Fri. On weeks where You want me to come to You on another day or whatever, i can work extra hours on another couple of days to make it up. So i'll have a basic framework, but i can still be flexible for You, and for [Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child]. i think that'll work. It'll start On July 1st.
i love You, Master. Today i'm thinking about You with the Senator and her people. You're so professional, knowledgeable, competant and charming. And You're oh so very handsome! i'm imagining You with all those people, explaining and discussing how things will go for the show. i'm sure that some cunt in the senator's entourage (or the senator herself?) will notice what a hottie You are. Sheesh, i sure could use Your cock up my ass right about now. And some pain. i could really use some pain. But only the kind that You can give me. You're oh so good at that. Only You, Master. Only You.
~ Your cunt
Date: Thu, 23 Jun 2005 11:34:29 -0700 (PDT)
i was just thinking. (i know, i know...) Maybe everything is not all my fault. Not with Joyce and not with whatever shit i have (had, actually, it's almost gone) on my chin. i'm so guilt orientated. Maybe i got the rash from the cunt i licked. Maybe it was some sort of non-specific bacteria in her amazingly copious cunt-ejaculate ..................................................................................
Back to data entry.
~ Your cunt
Date: 6/23/05 Cover page to Karen Hobbs, Ph.D., 376 Colusa, #2, Kensington, CA 94707 re Tippie v. Welsh, Brian & Joyce. Enclosure(s): Visitation logs from Deborah [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave], and her notice of withdrawal as supervisor, dated June 2, 2005. Please review for your information and records. Prepared and signed by Marlena Noble, Legal Assistant to Lisa J. Gilmore, Esq.
Phone records for Atty Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated July 5, 2005:
Date: 4/01/05 Emp LJG Court appearance for restraining order; prepare order after hearing. Hours: 2.9 Amount: $435.00
Date: 6/06/05 Emp LJG Letter to Dr. Perryman re evaluation report; email to client, telephone call from Dr. Perryman, letter to Ms. Welsh re scheduling appointment with Dr. Perryman; update letter to Dr. Hobbs. Hours: 0.5 Amount: $75.00
Date: 6/25/05 Emp LJG Telephone call to Dr. Karen Hobbs re status of case; telephone call to client; telephone call to Ms. Welsh; email to Ms. Welsh re restraining order.
Hours: 0.3 Amount $45.00
Date: 6/27/05 Letter from Heidi Perryman, Ph.D. (3704 Mt. Diablo Blvd., STE 319, Lafayette, CA 94549) to Joyce Welsh as follows:
Dear Ms. Welsh:
Thank you for returning the child development questionnaire. It was very helpful I'm sorry to learn that you will no longer be doing visits with Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]. I hope you have already begun looking for a professional supervisor, so that your daughter can have contact with you soon. Please understand that I can't have the role of giving your daughter CD's or letters from you. I'm sending the CD back and hopefully you can give it to her yourself in person.
Date: Thu, 7 Jul 2005, 15:35:17 -0700 (PDP)
Subject: Re: / leaving work
To: "x x"
Thank you for your response. Thank you for being real with me. You're right, things that happened before You knew me are none of my business. But they are part of what has made You who You are and part of who i love and worship. Even so, thank You for telling me about which VD You had. I would have understood and accepted it if You had herpes and didn't tell me, but that's nice to know that's not the case. ..................
About Joyce. i don't believe that i've been judgemental of her. Just like she's been with me, i've been open-minded and tried to understand her reactions to her situation. After some time has passed i'm going to approach her and ask if she would like to resume our friendship. What i'm stressing about and what i'd like your opinion about is what You think about my decision to write and submit the report i did. i feel that i did the right thing for [MINOR DAUGHTER], but i feel so guilty about hurting Joyce. I know that I can't have it both ways. i'm just wondering what You think i should have done,
considering what she did that day and what my responsibilities were as supervisor.
I'm trying to leave on time. May i call You on the drive home?
Your situation with Joyce needs to be resolved by you and her. You don't have to agree with everyting she does to be her friend, and that is what she needs now. Don't lecture her, don't tell her she is doing anything wrong, just be there as a sounding board. That is my opinion. I don't agree with all she is doing either, but don't feel I would tell her if she were my friend. Sometimes we need to go through trauma to grow.........................................
I am and will always be, your Master. M
............................................You are my priority and i'm consumed by you. i'm still upset about Joyce. (I saw Brian yesterday and he said that she hasn't contacted his lawyer about getting a replacement supervisor for her visits. Her reevaluation for custody is 8/11). ...................................
I'm so sick and tired of spending my life depressed, guilty, lost, and confused but I don't seem confortable living any other way.
i love you Master. Your cunt
Date: Fri, 8 Jul 2005 09:56:50 0700 PDT
Subject: Re /leaving work / good morning, Master
To: "x x"
Thank you for your feedback about Joyce. Your insight and opinion are very important and valuable to me. It's true that 90% of the time all that I want from You is to listen to me, but this time I wanted your feedback. my husband counseled me to do what i did in regards to the report and stepping down, and everyone that i spoke to about it supported me in what i did, but i couldn't put it to rest until i heard from You. It's not even that I needed you to agree 100% with my decision to write a negative report and quit as supervisor. If You had said that i basically did the right thing but that i could have written the report in a more positive or general way, i would have understood. In retrospect, You're right that agreeing to be the visitation supervisor was setting myself up to be manipulated. I will learn from that mistake.
I can understand how You see me as judgemental of Joyce's lifestyle. i am. But i hontestly don't believe that i imposed my opinions on her. Occasionally i would say something like i don't understand why you did that" or "i think it would be more helpful and effective if you did "x". But i was always sympathetic and supportive. i did what i could to help her, physically, emotionally and financially. .............................I'll write more later. Your cunt.
You may call me. Whether you did right by Joyce is not the issue, did you do right by the child. Joyce is an adult and should know better. It is wrong to put a child in the middle of two fighting parents. Joyce was wrong. You were right.
DATE: Fri, 8 Jul 2005 13:47:46 - 0900 (PDT)
Whew, I'm finally alone at my desk and able to continue my garrulous gab. M_____ is a bit stressed out this week because of the start of the new database program and trying to wind up the SLOS project and tie up loose ends. ..............................
Anyway , about Joyce. I'm kinda relieved not to have her drama in my life right now, but I really do care for her as a person and I want to remain her friend, and to help and support her. Maybe not with the same intensity, but with something that works for both of us. I'm not sure how she feels about me right now. When I gave her the court paperwork she was frustrated and hurt, but she didn't seem angry. I hope that's still the case. When I get back from Detroit I'll probably write to her rather then call her so that I can do a good job of being clear, and give her a chance to think about how she wants to proceed.
I love You, Master. Three years! Three amazing years You've stuck by me, nurtured me and supported me. You're a wonderful friend, an exciting in amorato and the best Master a cunt like me could ever hope to have.
Thank you, Master. You're so good to me. .............. Your cunt
Date: Fri, 22 Jul 2005 13:26:33 -0700 (PDT)
From: [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
To: Joyce Welsh
Yesterday morning I couldn't find my cell phone. When I got home, I looked all over the house. When I got home from work, I finally found it in the laundry basket in my closet. How did it get there? Well... on Wednesday I was wearing a skirt and blouse with no pockets. I had my cell phone in my brassiere. I guess that when I changed into my nightgown on Wednesday night, I flung my skirt, my blouse, my bra, and my cell phone into the laundry!
When I checked my missed messages, I saw that you had called me. The display said that you called at 10:37AM. I think that was actually before I called you from work. I had been waiting weeks to call you because I felt that we needed some time to heal and to get things in perspective. But even after all these weeks, I felt so awkward and uncomfortable that the words didn't come out right.
I know that I hurt and disappointed you. In retrospect, it was a mistake for me to take on the responsibility of being non-professional supervisor of your visits with [MINOR DAUGHTER]. I did it for the same reason that I came with you to court, to testify as a witness in the restraining order case. I did it because I knew how much you and [MINOR DAUGHTER] both need to see each other. But being supervisor set me up, and it drove a wedge between us. I never wanted that to happen.
Writing the report and stepping down as the non-professional supervisor for your visits with [MINOR DAUGHTER] was one of the hardest decisions that I ever had to make, but I believe that I was obligated not only to serve the court, but to do what they had taught us and what I believe was the best thing for [MINOR DAUGHTER]. I never wanted to hurt you or to be in such a position of power or judgment (I know that you never judged me, although there’s plenty to judge). I’m not a perfect mother and I hope that I’m never in a situation where I’m under a microscope like you are now, having to prove yourself. But we both agreed to put me in that position and when I saw you doing things that we both learned were not good for [MINOR DAUGHTER] (talking bad about Brian and putting her in the middle of your adult dispute with her father) and how they affected her (she cried and she wet and pooped her pants) I felt caught in the middle with no good solution.
I know that you're a good mother. I know that you love [MINOR DAUGHTER] with all of your heart. But I also understand how much pain and anguish you’ve been through and how I believe that it affected your judgment that day. I understand why you now want someone else to supervise your visits with her. I hope that things work out with _____ as supervisor and that you can see [MINOR DAUGHTER] again soon and often.
The last couple of times that we spoke you seemed hurried and distracted. I understand if you're not interested or if you're not ready to be friends with me again. I’ll be here if and when you are.
I believe that we were both very good to each other for many years and that we shared a wonderful friendship. I still love you like a sister. We gave each other the shirts off of our backs (literally), we supported and encouraged each other, we shared confidences, and in general we had a blast. I love your children as my own and I know that you feel the same way about [Child Visitation Supervisor's minor child].
I know that you're a strong woman and that you'll get your life back even better than before. Learning from this dilemma, I don't think that it's helpful to you for me to get in the middle of things again, but if there's any other way that I can help you, at any time in the future, please let me know.
~ [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
Joyce Welsh wrote: (On Saturday, July 30, 2005 11:02:14 -0700 (PDT) to [email protected])
I drove over to the area that Bob would be in- 2 hours of trying to remember where the building was. I contacted Comcast office here in Concord to try and find out where all the satellite buildings were, given I did not devolge any information, just said that I was looking for the store next to the building.
I have not heard anything back yet.
Also, I contacted Yahoo to find out about access to personal information on their accounts- and was told that you would need a sepena faxed to (408)349-7941, address 701 First Ave, Sunnyvale, Ca 94089. Their # (408)349-1572 (press 2 1 3) to get to a customer service, then ask for the Legal Department (my ref#2083553).
Best e-mail address to use:
this is BOB
This is [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
This is the other person in Las Vegas (dog abuser)
This is [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]
This is Donna Thieme- the other slave to Bob
I hope this helps, and I will do my best to collect more information. I'll keep you posted.
Phone Records for Lisa Gilmore of Whiting, Fallon & Ross dated August 3, 2005:
Date: 7/12/05 Emp LJG Telephone calls to client re upcoming hearings and visitation; email to client; telephone call from Ms. Welsh re visitation; telephone call from Dr. Heidi Perryman re visitation; telephone call to Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]. hours: 0.5 Amount $75.00
Date: 7/13/05 Letter to Joyce from Lisa J. Gilmore as follows:
Pursuant to our conversation yesterday, a visit with [MINOR DAUGHTER] has been arranged on Sunday, July 24, 2005 at [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave]'s home. Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] has agreed to supervise a single two-hour visit. The visit is tentatively scheduled from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.
As Dr. Perryman has explained you may visit with [MINOR DAUGHTER] regularly as soon as you arrange for a new supervisor to oversee the visitation. I understand that Dr. Perryman has given you several references. There are professional supervisors that you may hire to exercise your visitation. While there is a feel for this service, it should not prevent you from visiting with [MINOR DAUGHTER].
If you want to visit with [MINOR DAUGHTER] prior to July 24, 2005 or thereafter, please make efforts to arrange for a supervisor. In addition to the references provided by Dr. Perryman, the following supervisors are also acceptable: Safe Exchange (925) 681-1177; Kids Come First (Stacy Rodriguez) (9510) 432-3204; or Neoma Gottlieb (925) 200-7098.
Mr. Tippie spoke with Jennifer at Safe Exchange and was told that each parent must to the office to register; each parent must pay a $40.00 registration fee; and the hourly fee is $40.00 with a 2.5 hour minimum. A 2.5 hour visit is $100.00. You will be responsible for paying the hour, which is due the day of your visit. Safe Exchange has availability on Saturday, July 23, 2005.
Also, we are still waiting for your signature to release your interest in Mr. Tippie's Honda Pilot. Once the title is executed, you will no longer be liable for accidents or damage done by the vehicle. As a joint owner, you are jointly and severally liable for any damage that the vehicle may cause. Please call our office to schedule a time to sign the title.
Date: 7/15/05 Letter from Lisa J. Gilmore to Joyce re: first five paragraphs re Brian Tippie's Honda Pilot and Vanguard Money Market Account. Then the following paragraph on pg. 1 & 2:
Also, we informed Mr. Tippie that your friend, Christine Althaus, is willing to supervise visitation. We are advised that Mr. Tippie does not know this woman and has no knowledge of her relationship with you or [MINOR DAUGHTER]. He does not feel comfortable using her services for visitation. Perhaps you can explain who this person is and why you feel she would be an appropriate supervisor. Again, there are many professional supervisors that you may use to supervise visitation. Additionally, we informed you earlier this week, [Child Visitation Supervisor i.e. "Slave"] has agreed to supervise a single visit on July 24, 2005. Please confirm that you plan to participate in this visit.
Date: 7/22/05 Letter from Lisa J. Gilmore to Joyce as follows:
This letter is in reply to your voicemail of July 22, 2005.
To this date, our office has received the name of one (1) proposed supervisor, Christine Althaus. In your handwritten note of July 14, 2005, you stated, "My several friends do not want to have anything to do with Brian." If you have other proposed supervisors, please forward contact information for each person to our office.
Although Mr. Tippie does not know Ms. Althaus, he is happy to meet her and consider her as a potential supervisor. He hopes to make arrangements to meet with Ms. Althaus on Saturday, July 23, 2005, and has left her a voicemail message indicating such. Mr. Tippie wants you to have regular visits with [MINOR DAUGHTER], but an appropriate supervisor must be in place.
As we have informed you on multiple occasions, [Child Visitation Supervisor i.e. "Slave"] has agreed to supervise a single visit for two to three hours on Sunday, July 24, 2005. We asked you to confirm this fixit by today, but still have not received a confirmation. If you wish to exercise your visitation rights this weekend, please call my office by 5:00 p.m. today confirm. If we do not receive confirmation, we will inform Ms. [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] and Mr. Tippie that the visit is cancelled.
Date: 8/2/05 Custody evaluator Karen Hobbs' two pages of handwritten notes re phone call stating in part "Heidi Perryman: Gave a long story @ herpes even though she said she had sent letter - can't have visitation supervisor because of her behavior in a letter to Heidi. She didn't say attorney was wrong. She decided to fire the supervisor because she was into this bizarre sexual behavior and herpes." Additionally: "Joyce has called a lot...came in 2X and has been guidable if stays concrete." "Everyone agreed to a one hour visit with [Child Visitation Supervisor, i.e. Slave] and then changed and said no because of herpes."
Date: 8/7/05 Custody evaluator Karen Hobbs' two pages of handwritten notes re phone call stating in part: "[Child Visitation Supervisor i.e. "Slave"], I might have over reacted. Joyce has been a good friend to me. The 8 hrs in one day was probably a mistake. She's cry a little first few hours, I also might have over reacted because she did what my mother did - talked @ my father." .................... "I have genital herpes. Really got stressed. Takes suppressive therapy for it. The last visit she had a rash on her chin - worried can she transfer to face. 20% chance. Miles, sometimes [MINOR DAUGHTER]. They grabbed the Coke and she told him not drink it........................"
The End of Timeline and documents,
Kathryn Joanne Dixon, compilation © 2007